Maybe someone you work with? Maybe a friend? Maybe a member of your family? Maybe the hot dog seller on the corner?Do they enjoy what they do? Now, obviously I cant know who youre thinking of, but I *can* tell you whether or not they enjoy what they do. (Ok, ...

Exploration is one of the keys to the kingdom of love. You have to know how to do it and how to time it. Dont leave it out of the relationship or it will go stale. Dont rush it either or pretty soon therell be nothing left to explore. Wanting to know your partner inside out is fine, but dont try to learn it all in the first three months. This is a process you can spread over a couple of years, leaving little secrets for future discoveries and preparing surprises for your partner. The same goes for sex and its role in relationships.